Becoming unattracted to girlfriend!?
Asked: Becoming unattracted to girlfriend!?
Well me and my girlfriend have been dating 7 months now and she was always SUPER attractive to me but lately Im not that sexually attracted to her. We've never had sex before (we are 15) and I don't plan on it for a while because Im not risking it! But anyways she is very shy, too shy and Im more outgoing and social. I love her but its becoming more of a friendship for me. I think its because all she does is give me hand jobs and I can barely get off from them (it takes at least 10-15 minutes for me to get to ejaculate and I have to try to. Ive asked her to give me blow jobs but she is too nervous which I understand and I don't want to make her uncomfortable. But when I think about her (in a sexual way) all I really think about is the feeling of hand jobs and I don't even like them that much. Even if I try to think of blow jobs or sex I don't get excited because I just cant imagine her doing any of that. She wants to have sex but I don't. I want to wait until Im older and just get BJ's and HJ's until then. I don't know what to do because I love her but Im just not sexually attracted to her. And she is very attracted to me and shes VERY protective and cares A LOT about me so I don't want to bring this to her attention and make her feel terrible because she is VERY VERY VERY VERY fragile and I could just see her break out crying in front of me. Also Id MAYBE consider sex if she was on birth control and I used a condom and I pulled out but I asked her to ask her parents about it but instead she asked her sister (who isnt the best romodel) about it and she said that she would be fine with just a condom. This just made me mad. She came back and told me that her sister said that and she would be uncomfortable asking, So I just said that Im not doing it. I cant stand that she isnt doing anything to really please and wont do anything to try to please me either but I do as much as I can to please her. I dont know what to do.Every night she says she loves me more than anything and wouldnt know what she'd do with out me… I dont know what to do without hurting her, I love her so much and I want to date her but this is really getting on my nerves.
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What happens if someone sold me a stolen bike on craigslist?
Asked: What happens if someone sold me a stolen bike on craigslist?
Someone just banged on my parents doors SUPER early and now I'm going to be late for school since my dad is still outside with the person who claims the bike is theirs.
okay so for my birthday my parents went on craigslist and we found a bike i loved, we paid like $150 for it but i'd seen it in stores and it's like a $500 bike, so i guess it would make sense it was stolen?
anyways, i really love the bike and i've used it a lot, but today someone came to OUR HOUSE (how the heck did they know we bought it anyways? what the hell) and they're screaming at my dad saying they'll call the cops and asking us how much we bought it for and they keep trying to come onto the porch to get it… luckily it's locked.
how do we even know if this person is telling the truth? like.. how would they find us, you know? that's so weird. besides, WE BOUGHT THE BIKE FAIRLY! on craigslist! it's my birthday present..
they aren't going to give us the money we spent so what the heck happens if they call the cops? i don't want to give my present back. maybe they should've locked up their bike? god.
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Saddam Answered:
They bought the bike legally and didn't know it was stolen, therefore, you own the bike. If they wish to take ownership, they need to pay you a fair amount for it, as determined by you, the seller.
They bought the bike legally and didn't know it was stolen, therefore, you own the bike. If they wish to take ownership, they need to pay you a fair amount for it, as determined by you, the seller.
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They would have to prove the bike was the one stolen.This will be very difficult for them to do unless it's been previously marked with their post code or something.
They would have to prove the bike was the one stolen.This will be very difficult for them to do unless it's been previously marked with their post code or something.
Even if they identify a unique factor such as a scratch somewhere you can just say it's because they've seen it on your porch.
Seriously, just tell them to **** off and do as they want because they're not taking the bike.There's no way they will call the cops and you had no idea it was stolen so are fine.
Just don't leave YOUR bike unattended
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The Betted Heart//Chapter Eighteen
Hello! Soooo, today I went to go see open houses, and they were BEAUTIFUL! My mother says she might buy one, yay! The Betted Heart//Chapter Eighteen Harmony's POV I woke up, not feeling Justin near me. I knew I wouldn't see him in the morning, but I at least hoped he would. I sighed and got up, but my the hurt in my stomach forced me to sit down again. Man, Lita sure had very sharp, long heels. I breathed in and got up, this time resisting the pain. I went to my drawer and picked out my cloths for the day. I got dressed, brushed my teeth, and then straightened my hair. It's straight but, I like it SUPER straight. Every moment, I couldn't take my mind off Justin. I just don't understand! If he broke up with Lita, why would she do that to me? It doesn't make sense AT ALL! I'm not buying anything Justin had told me. I don't recall him ever breaking up with her. I went down stairs and greeted my parents. "Hey. How are you feeling?" my mom asked me, completely worried. I gave her a slight smile and replied, "I'm fine." "What happened to you?" she inquired. I've never told my parents that Lita bully's me. Actually, they don't even know I'm bullied at all. "I fell on a rock." I said falsely. "You sure?" my dad asked me. I nodded my head and sat down to eat my breakfast. "When did Justin leave?" I questioned. "Around ten. Really fine boy." my mom said, approving Justin. I giggled at their parenting. Sometimes I ask myself if I live in the "Romeo and Juliet" generation. "Are you <b>…</b>
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Help! My parents found out Am not a Virgin anymore!!!!!!!!!!!!?
MystikMani Asked: Help! My parents found out Am not a Virgin anymore!!!!!!!!!!!!?
Well, am 18 and been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half.We are both very serious.When my parents got to know i was dating him, they made such a fuss and made me stop seeing him. (Nothing abt him being a bad guy, just a caste thing).
Now they found out i am not a virgin and they've been treating me as though i killed someone, or worst.My dad said that was the biggest mistake i ever made.Shudnt they be happy i love that guy and he serious with me and we plan to get married?Even that guy's family love me.
I really dunno what to do. My dad is being so difficult. I know its difficult for him to accept that i had sex.
Even my own mother treats me as though am disgusting. I really need help.
P.S We are asian and my parents are SUPER strict as in no sex before marriage.
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