Is he just a player? Should I give him a chance?
Kelsey Asked: Is he just a player? Should I give him a chance?
Ok so me and this guy dating in the winter and we broke up a few weeks before Christmas ( I broke up with him ). I broke up with him because I just felt like we were rushing into things and he just really wasnt my type of guy. Also whenever I told someone at school who I was going out with, I would always get a bad reaction. Everybody who knew him said he was a player so I couldnt trust him. He even told me that he couldnt tell you how many girls he went out with in his lifetime because he lost track. So after we broke up I stopped talking to him. But he would always text me and message me. SO then we started talking. In a lot of our conversations he would mention how good of a kisser I was -___- Even when he got another girl friend, he still flirted with me. So anyway last night we were talking and now Im considering weather or not to take him back. But Im confused if he is a player or not and if everything hes saying to me is just a joke. What do you think I should do? heres the important parts of our convo (its too long to type the whole thing)..
Him: lmao yup oh I remember this time this keep kept telling my friends boyfriend that she was cheating off him with me and he called her a dirty skank and **** and she was like Fine if everyone believes it! and she kissed me right there. Lol Im sorry but I didnt even notice the kiss cuase I was too busy laughing at the look on the guys face.
Me: LOL xD thats hilarious but that guy deserved it hahahah
Him: She was ok at kissing, but you were better.
Me: Thanks (: You were pretty good too lol
Him: idk you were way better, like you put feeling into it xD
Me: lol well there were a lot of good feeling going on at the time xD
Him: yeah to bad that time past for you :/
Me: Yeah haha sorry :/ Do you still have feeling for me? Cause your acting like it.
Him: wait do you?
Me: Answer my question first
Him: Well a lil bit like not incredibly cuz I Dont think you do
Me: lol awhh (: well honestly I miss how I felt with you, but I just think you arent my type of guy Plus I dont get back with my exs
Him: Wait how am I not your type
Me: ok but dont get mad you seem like you care a lil bit too much about how your girl looks. I want a guy who will think Im beautiful with no makeup and sweat pants on lol. Also I dont like how you move on really fast after a relationship, just being honest. You can say whatever the hell you want about me
Him: lol well thats not true. I mean between you and me, I have dated girls that well werent that pretty. I mean looks get my attention but the personality draws me in. thats what happened with you, I mean you were real beautiful and I really enjoyed getting to know you. I am still trying to get over you. I mean I dont show it cuz I was taught not to show your emotions unless you have to. But I didnt anyone after we broke up until months later.
Him: oh and I have nothing to say about you, I mean I have nothing against you. Well I can say compliments but nothing bad.
Me: lol well thanks but like I said, Im just giving my honest opinion. I had no idea it took that long for you to get over me and its ok to show your true emotions with me. But I dont understand why you like me. There are better girls.
Him: So what! Those girls didnt spend time drinking a slushie at target and get to know me. I didnt hold those girls in my arms and dance with while praying to god I didnt trip or embarrass myself so I wouldnt make you think I was a loser. I didnt sit around with a frown on my face all day after getting dumped by those girls. This girls arent you.
Me: thats really sweet but Im sure you have said that to other girls. I mean com on chris we have only been on a few dates.. How much could you know about me.
Him: You play soccer, you respect your parents decisions, you have good taste in friends, your very cute, your real fun to talk to, and whenever I talk to you it can sometimes be hard for me because I dont want to say the wrong thing and make you think badly of me.
Me: aww (: Well you said the right thing that time xD
Him: Thank you (: plus why would I try so hard for some girl when I could have someone else. Cuase I like her alot and I enjoy being with her and she could have the worst have the worst hair day, wearing the ugliest baggiest clothes, and wearing no makeup and Ill tell the world KELSEY IS THE GIRL IM CRUSHING ON.
Me: thanks (: but Im still unsureif you are my type of guy. And I just really dont have time for a relationship right now
Him: Im not asking for a serious relationship, just dating and taking time to get to know each other.
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