how to get back what we had?

Paigi Daft Asked: how to get back what we had?

WARNING:This is going to be long. so me and my boyfriend have been together since nov 29 09. We have a 7month old daughter and in the beginning of our relationship iloved him alot adn we had so much fun. we didnt hav our first argument until around our 6 month mark. it was over something stupid he said, and it hurt me bad. and then from there on we would argue. it got as bad as everyday we would argue for like a straight week. then we wouldn't be so bad.. we moved in with each other last year around this time and its like he changed sooo much.. when ilived with my parents its like he would go out of his way to do things fr me and to spend time with me but when we moved in with each other he always was working and then would always be busy and the only time would see him if when he got home and went to sleep an in the Morning gettin ready to go to work. mind you iwas pregnant,in october some girl emailed me messages they were sending and he was talking about ******* her and itold him and threatened to leave him and iwas going to, ive never stayed wih someone after they've hurt me. but he started crying and told me i was just a moment he got stupid and wasnt going to do anything and he hasnt since then. but it feels like ever since then he is just an *** towards me. our daughter was born jan 5th 2011 and he ws there cut the cordeverything. but when we got home he wasnt as "eager" to be a father as ithot he would be. wen iwas pregnan he snst wana set anything us or get ready so that was kinda a clue. but ifeel like im supposed to do this by myself somtimes because he doesnt help as much as iwant him too,( we've already had this disscusion) it seems like he is always trying to argue with me or being ill towards me. he provides for me and our daughter but just doesnt seem like he wants to be in this 100% anymore. on a personal note: the sex has changed DRAMATICALLY.. idnt even enjoy it anymore.. but anyways. ijust want what we had in te begining, where we didnt argue as much and where ifelt like ilove him and that iactually want to be in his arms at night and feel the thrive to be together again. we've tried date night but that ddnt help. is it time to call it quits? hav ifallen out of love with him? irefuse to be with him bc of our child bc of what it did to me and my brother when my parents did that,(p.s. we are supposed t get married next year in June)