How can i deal with an unemotional and unsupportive partner?

flowergirl89 Asked: How can i deal with an unemotional and unsupportive partner?

I found out last week that I am pregnant (i was on the pill when it happened and was taking it properly so unsure of how this occured). Anyway, I told my boyfriend – and he straight away said that we should abort because we are both still in our second year of university and have no money to support it (which i agreed with). Plus, hes indian and his parents wont accept me in his or their lives so he hasnt told them about me.
The problem is that since we found out about the pregnancy he has been very unsupportive – kind of avoiding the subject and being insensitive to my feelings and the fact that I'm feeling very rough with a lot of sickness anf fatigue. He spends nearly every night with his mates getting drunk and has only come to see me once which was a week and a half ago when I found out about the pregnancy.

On top of all this, he is very unemotional. I think its due to the lack of emotion shown by his parents throughout his childhood – but im not sure. He never says anything comforting, and treats me a bit more like a buddy rather than someone hes intimate with. Hes never used the word love, or that he cares for me, or that he misses me….even though i say these things to him. Im also the one that initiates kisses and cuddles. Im so fed up and just need some general advice about how to deal with this situation. What would you guys do??? Thanks for reading and each answer you give i will really appreciate